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Helen Gruver 

Trust Officer & Retirement Plan Operations Associate

Biography

Helen Gruver joined Trust Company Oklahoma as an employee benefits specialist in 2015. Today, she serves as a trust officer and operations specialist in our retirement plan solutions division.

Previously, she worked as an employee benefits specialist with Weikel Johnson Parris & Rouse, where she focused on 401(k) plans. She served as manager of human resources for Sitemaster, a company that installs cell phone towers, and also worked in HR for NGL Energy.

BBA, Human Resources and Business Administration, Oklahoma Wesleyan University

Helen volunteers with the Food Bank of Eastern Oklahoma and supports the organization’s goal of ending hunger in the communities it serves.

In her free time, Helen enjoys relaxing at the lake with her husband and spending time outdoors with her family, camping, fishing, and swimming. She also works out regularly at a local gym.

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Since 1981, we’ve helped individuals, families, and organizations preserve their wealth, navigate uncertainty, and build lasting financial legacies — all with one guiding mission: to give you financial peace of mind.

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Our advisors aren’t just credentialed professionals; they’re your neighbors, mentors, and advocates. From volunteering locally to guiding client legacies, we believe trust is built through service both inside and outside the office.

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